Love Times Two September 5, 2007

Love times two is a paradox, because we always confess love in terms of only for one. Most would say that true love is only present for one person at a time, but as you live out your days you can and will experience the paradox of the two syndromes, might even hit three. I am gathering it is about the CHOICE to stay with one out of honor and commitment for a significant others feelings as well as your own mixed up emotions. As sad as it sounds you can love two people at once. Unfortunately, you must keep it a secret because it hurts everyone involved or not involved (you don’t have to confess your undying love). It is just to explore that fact that it is a possibility. People get dogged out when they get caught out there. False claims are made about the sincerity of their feelings and you are taught to believe that love can not exist when someone loves an additional person.  Cheating is different; when you cheat on someone it is because you don’t explore your all with that person. You lend yourself out to a third party to fill the void of a weakness on your or your others behalf, or for simple amusement and lack of sound judgment.  To love someone else means you care deeply about the person and respect the boundaries of the relationship without cheating…if that is possible.It’s tricky that is why most people in the world feel it can’t exist….maybe because sometimes it involves choosing one over another….and if you love someone no one is supposed to be better than them right?